Dr. Vierra Hanalei offers thoughtful, evidence-based psychotherapy in the heart of Del Mar — a grounded place to explore anxiety, trauma, and the transitions that shape your life.
I am Dr. Vierra Hanalei, a licensed marriage and family therapist practicing in Del Mar, California. My work is rooted in the belief that every person carries within them the capacity for healing — sometimes they simply need a steady, thoughtful witness to help them find it.
With a doctoral degree in psychology and clinical training across diverse settings, I bring both depth and practicality to each session. Whether you are navigating anxiety, processing trauma, or standing at a crossroads in your life, I meet you where you are — without judgment, with genuine curiosity, and with the intention of walking alongside you.
My practice sits at the intersection of clinical expertise and human warmth. I draw from evidence-based approaches tailored to your unique needs, honoring the wisdom of your experience while offering new lenses through which to understand yourself.
PhD
Doctoral Training
MFT
Licensed Therapist
Del Mar
In-Person Practice
My approach is collaborative, culturally attuned, and grounded in the understanding that healing is not linear. Here is what you can expect when we work together.
I believe the therapeutic relationship itself is healing. You will be heard deeply, met with empathy, and supported in an environment where vulnerability is welcomed, not rushed.
My methods are informed by current research and clinical best practices, including CBT, psychodynamic therapy, and mindfulness-based approaches — always adapted to what serves you best.
Your background, identity, and lived experience matter. I honor the ways culture shapes our stories and strive to create a space where you feel seen in your entirety.
You are the expert on your own life. Together, we will identify what matters most to you and build a path forward that feels authentic, achievable, and meaningful.
I approach all work with a trauma-informed lens — prioritizing safety, choice, and empowerment. Healing from past wounds is possible at a pace that feels right for you.
Mental health does not exist in isolation. I consider the full context of your life — relationships, work, health, and purpose — to support lasting, integrated change.
I work with adults and couples facing a range of concerns. Each person's treatment plan is as unique as they are — here are some of the areas I most commonly support.
Persistent worry, panic, social anxiety, and the weight of chronic stress — finding relief is possible.
Processing past experiences that continue to affect your present — with care, safety, and at your pace.
When the weight of depression makes everyday life feel overwhelming — you don't have to carry it alone.
Career changes, relationship shifts, grief, and other moments of profound change — navigating them with clarity.
Improving communication, rebuilding trust, and deepening connection — whether individually or as a couple.
Exploring patterns of self-doubt, people-pleasing, and identity concerns to build a stronger sense of self.
"Healing is not about erasing the past, but about reclaiming your future."
— Dr. Vierra Hanalei
The bravest thing I ever did was continuing my life when I wanted to give up — and finding a therapist who helped me believe that was possible.
— A former client
Reaching out is often the hardest part. If you are ready to begin, I would be honored to hear from you. Contact me to schedule a consultation or ask any questions.
Address
1337 Camino del Mar
Del Mar, CA 92014-2504
Phone
(858) 755-5690Office Hours
Monday – Friday: 9:00 AM – 6:00 PM
Evening & weekend slots available
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If you are reading this, something in you is ready for a change. That is already a form of courage.